Sunday, November 08, 2009
"This is Who I Am" Vanessa Amorosi
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Post Modern Youth Ministry and 'Rites of Passage'
In teaching this semesters course "Youth, Culture and Mission" we've just done a series of weeks around the contextual and cultural issues for ministry with young people in terms of: evangelism; mission; faith shaping; and rites of passage. This week it's preaching and teaching! I'm still pondering the really practical implications more broadly and also specifically in the 'rites of passage' area...
"One of the recurring themes in postmodern youth ministry circles is the lack of strategic points at which young people are recognized as becoming more than children. The church can be a place of recognition and communal rites of passage for youth."
Markers are external signs of our progress along, in Kierkegaard’s lovely phrase, ‘the stages of life’s way’
David Elkind
This topic is about the way we might help or hinder young people [adolescents] make the transition to adulthood and in the case of the Christian faith this might include the transition to mature Christian faith.
Issues:
Changes in the child to adult transition
The relatively new concept [100+ years] of youth
‘stretched’ adolescence with part time work, study, living at home, late marriage, 50/50 church v civil ceremony and those simply 'moving in' together
Belonging, Meaning and Identity, Faith Shaping but also ‘recognition’
How do we ‘pass on’ the faith in this context?
Post modern interruptions… is ‘confirmation’ a graduation ceremony?
Spiritual and faith practices to aid the transition [portable faith]
What significant points can/should we mark and celebrate?
Membership and Leadership in a post modern context
1.5 and 2nd gen issues
In terms of ‘mission’, how/what will be meaningful entry points for connecting with young people in your community… what rights of passage could/should the church offer?
Issues around new understandings about sexuality
Divorce Single Parent Families
Refugees
Death
Year 12
Individualism/consumerism
Media
Appropriate discipleship
How do we encourage creativity and imagination?
Can adults value children and young people offering then space, permission and vailidity?
Move from propositional faith to imagination
What are the commonly accepted ‘rites of passage’ in your church? In your family? In the youth sub-culture of the young people you work closely with?
Do you agree with Elkind that there is a lack of markers in our society?
Why? Why not?
If you were to construct a ‘rite of passage’ for the young people you work with, what would the purpose of it be? Who would you involve? What would you do?
"It is no longer possible to effectively present the Gospel in the way it was successfully preached in the first part of the 20th century. Understanding the postmodern worldview is not a luxury for a sociologists. It must be an essential insight for all Christians.”
From Rick Warren at http://www.internetevangelismday.com/
Post-modern evangelistic methods versus modern methods
Multiple encounters — less single encounters
Listener-centered — less witness-centered
Dialogue — less monologue or ‘telling’
Gospel story — less Gospel presentation
Story then proposition — not proposition then story
Asking good questions — not giving lots of information
Community integration — not individual isolation
Soft — not loud
Consideration — not argument
Guided tours — not ticket sales
More supernatural — less supersales (natural)
More earthly benefits — less eternal benefits
More relational validation — less evidence validation
More percent of time seed planting – less percent of time harvesting
Sharing Christ can be fruitful and rewarding, yet it will be ever adapting to the changing culture. After conducting hundreds of interviews with lost people, it was easy to determine that the cries of the confused are many and varied. The lost people reflect many of the concerns and views of those around them. However, there is a common cry of the confused. It is found in the title of a Styx song, "Show Me the Way."
STUFF to be sharpened before my next post on this:
In addition to the general Warren list...
Faithmaps [www.faithmaps.org] mapping known reference points, not every answer
Story and it's importance
Enquiry not information
Relationship relationship relationship
Experiences
Affinity and Mission [Oestericher]
Described by Mark Oestricher in "Youth Ministry 3.0" as the 2 focuses of the pomo era [I tend to agree, especially on the praxis value of engaging in 'mission'
People not programs
Celebrations, liturgy, events, community engagement/partnerships cf 'church versions of same'
Naivety
Respondi and remembering to help young people engage in stories for the first time
catering directly to peoples issues, ages and stages in life
Intergenerational activity and relationships
Discipleship material across the age ranges recognising pilgrimage or journey
Transition focused resources like "P1" for Yr 6 to 7 transition
Camps, retreats, celebrations [not books for attendance/membership]
Youth Ministry 3.0 Mark Oestricher from www.beliefnet.com
The reviwer says....
"We need to develop an ongoing conversation about youth ministry.
Marko's book provides for us a virtual history of youth ministry in the last 50+ years and does so clearly and simply. [in the US]
We need this book."
As you read this post, think about whether or not you agree with his 3-fold scheme.
Maybe you don't agree with it all, but in general. What do you think of his 3.0 proposals?
Here are the characteristics of Youth Ministry 1.0 according to Marko's new book,
"Youth Ministry 3.0: A Manifesto of Where We've Been, Where We Are & Where We Need to Go":
The 50s gave rise to a youth culture and this led to ministries like Youth for Christ and Young Life.The major emphases were on two things:
Evangelism
Correction
Youth ministry 1.0 was proclamation-driven.
It was fixated on identity formation and a theme verse would have been Matthew 7:13-14: "Enter through the narrow gate ...".
Youth Ministry 2.0 focused on autonomy (youth culture had confidence now) and discipleship programs and creating a positive peer group. 2.0 was not so much proclamation as program-driven.
A theme verse was Matthew 28:19-20a: make disciples and teach them.
Youth Ministry 3.0, call it a "third way," realizes it cannot meet this generation's needs with a 2.0 set of assumptions and methods. Youth culture has become the dominant culture in our world. And it is powerfully fragmented. It gives rise to the need for affinity groups. He says we need cultural anthropologists with relational passion. The themes are
Communion or affinity
Mission
Big idea for Marko: if 1.0 was proclamation-driven and 2.0 was program-driven, 3.0 needs to be not-driven. It wants to be Present. Marko thinks some prototypical Bible verses will be Acts 2:42-46
More to come...
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Friday, November 06, 2009
New York Yankees clinch their 27th 'World Series'
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Monday, November 02, 2009
"Oh My God" A Peter Rodger Film
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Friday, October 30, 2009
U2 webcast on U2tube last Monday
I break my U2 embargo [until Australian dates are announced] only to acknowledge that this event happened earlier in the week and if you already know how to capture clips from youtube it's all there on their official Youtube Channel, live from the LA Rose Bowl.
I will not be writing about the gig, songlist, the claw, NASA, Desmond Tutu, red zone or the vibe...
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Thursday, October 29, 2009
"Bluesfest" Easter Camp 2010

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Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Wallabies v All Blacks in Tokyo [Saturday]
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Saturday, October 24, 2009
Amazon KINDLE
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An Upcoming Event
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Saturday, October 10, 2009
Obama wins Nobel Peace Award
In one way it shows what a poor year it's been for peace... and yet his tour of muslim countries, scale back in Iraq, efforts in the middle east and call for no nukes are somewhat remarkable. I wonder if the reaction is a lack of belief in the aspirations or just the short time and the sense it's a little premature! Perhaps the same is true of Morgan Tsvangirai in Zimbabwe who would have also been a worthy winner!
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Friday, October 09, 2009
"Sound Relief" DVD Out Today
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Tuesday, October 06, 2009
"All of the Dreamers" Powderfinger
It does look like 'The Finger' had fun in home town Brisbane making the clip for their single from the upcoming album "Gold Ring' [due out Nov 13th]
BDO tix go onsale tomorrow and they're playing!! 22 January in Sydney
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Saturday, October 03, 2009
Tck Tck Tck Climate Change
The Oils reworked 'Beds are Burning' clip is now ready to raise awareness ahead of the Copenhagen Climate Change Summit later this year!! Check out more about the campaign here
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Sunday, September 27, 2009
NZ PM on Letterman last week
Welcome to my first pumphouse post from my new MacBook Pro... fittingly the NZ PM doing the Top Ten on Letterman's Late Show last week!!
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Sunday, September 20, 2009
Worship Unplugged #62 'Plan Be' at Salt Factory
Peacemaker
Mercy
Meek
Lament
Justice
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Saturday, September 19, 2009
Thursday, September 17, 2009
"Beds are Burning" for Climate Change
So it seems you'll soon be able to download a version of the celebrity recorded and re-worded version of the 'Oils' "Beds are Burning" reworded for climate change and explored at least on the Tck Tck Tck website and/or MySpace here!! I look forward to hearing and seeing how it helps a vital campaign in the lead up to Copenhagen!!
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Sunday, September 13, 2009
Row 'M' Seat 30 "As It Is In Heaven"



I have had some space this week to write some resources I've been meaning to catch up on... including this discussion guide and resource for the great Swedish film "As It Is In Heaven."
The film operates on lots of levels and is only enriched by the direct messages for those engaged in 'church' community!!
A pdf will be downloadable soon from the Youth Unit website here but is here for saving as a gif file!!
I look fwd to a group discussion again this coming week with colleagues at the 'Formation Intensive' at Nth Parramatta!!
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Friday, September 11, 2009
9th September 2009

Bar Beach, Newcastle, NSW Australia
Here's a photo of my second favourite place in the world at 9.09am on 09.09.09!!
And I was just thinking that this time last year I was in my favourite place, New York City, spending four days exploring work, fun and sport!! In the 1970's they exported sand from this stretch of the beach between Bar and Merewether to improve the eroded Hawaiian beaches!! The far end is the home 'break' and still residence of four times world surfing champ Mark Richards!!
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Monday, September 07, 2009
'Salt Factory' 22nd September 2009

My 'experimental' group gathering called 'Salt factory' has gathering number two coming up as per the jpeg included here and details of 'Salt factory' are here!!
Young Adults who are interested are welcome to join in/check it out... etc
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Sunday, September 06, 2009
"Water" Themed Worship this week
Did some work this week on a 'water' themed worship or really 'living water' and used some things from recent ocassions but put them together in specific ways to be the happening that followed a 'workshop with the key group from East Maitland Uniting Contemporary Worship.
Pre worship live clip of "Ocean" John Butler Trio [youtube]
Four Voices Call asking for volunteers on the spot
VOICE ONE:
This is our worship
This is not a concert, a film or a play,
We set aside time to ‘be’ and to ‘know’
VOICE TWO:
What difference does God make?
How will we be the people of God in this place?
In all places?
VOICE THREE:
What do we celebrate? What do we lament?
How is the metaphor of ‘water’ meaningful for us?
God make yourself known to us
VOICE FOUR:
We own up to being less than we can be,
We accept the promise of God to forgive us,
May we live as forgiven people, with grace and freedom to share
God be with us in our time together...
Then introduced my Photostory 3 reflection on "Magnificent" U2
Having already used a 'confession' or 'owning up and being forgiven' word, we added reflection time with tracing or pouring in a tub of water while listening to "Wash Me Clean" Bernard Fanning
The Band led Communal Singing
Read part of "Previously" storybook as a reminder that we all have a 'previously' or a story of what went before...
"Woman at the Well" video from youtube and the Twist DVD
[5]questions.... who is this woman? what else strikes you? what did jesus mean? who else is this woman? how should we respond?
John 4: 7-15 read in [3] parts
Song/s
[9] Stations
[a] Words on Cards, to react/reflect on
[b] “Previously” to read
[c] “Water” doco/”Water” Blue King Brown clip AV write ‘post-it-note” prayer youtube
[d] Magnetic Poetry
[e] “NOOMA” DVD 'Today' looped
[f] Bible Passage on paper/further reflection Qs
[g] ‘Who is this Woman ?’ picture reflection
[h] “Pasha Bulker” Bob Evans looped with lyrics on paper
[i] Leunig Prayer OFFERING
SONG
FOUR VOICE SENDING OUT
VOICE FIVE:
Give us a blank piece of paper God
On it we will write our hopes and our questions.
VOICE SIX:
Shape us, guide us, through distractions, poor choices
and our own agenda
Help us find meaning in your story and make it our own through your Spirit
VOICE SEVEN:
Send us out to share our humanity, ourselves
Help us be sources of ‘life giving’ water in Jesus example
VOICE EIGHT:
Help us a create a new and different story,
So we move ourselves and others from “quietly screamed desperation”
To a different place.
AMEN
*Thoreau
FINAL SONG
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Wednesday, September 02, 2009
"Mac-over" here we come...

For a while we've had plans at work to update my laptop. While some wierd audio-visual issues had been resolved there were still some hassles and the more I tested out creative stuff the more the limits have been obvious... my DEll is to become a second AV laptop and for use around the Unit in various more straight forward projects!!
Because we are well resourced for equipment and given permission to have the tools we need to do our tasks.... much appreciated John and Sally!! I am able to venture into the 'light' and start using a Mac!!
As I said on facebook... now for the shaved head, 30kg weightloss, Dr Martens, black framed glasses, Howies jumper etc etc... the 'Mac-over'!!
Now come the endless questions for colleagues, hackers, and officianados!!
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Tuesday, September 01, 2009
'Wattle Day' in Australia
Typical of my preferred forms of transport and activity [e.g. I love walking but that means urban footpaths and even the pathway adjacent to the beach from Merewether via Bar Beach to town] I know it's 'Wattle Day' because today and for the last few weeks the wattle deliberately planted alongside the F3 Freeway are in full bloom!! They are a blatant attempt to make the regrowth look native and special... it works!!
The weather is unseasonally warm but I hope it continues!!
In celebration of all such things Australian I add the following from the Monty Python team
This sketch is the origin of the 'sprig of wattle' chant still used by the Aussie cricket team after a victory and led by an annointed team member. It was the source of the choker hold by Simon Katich on Michael Clarke after Clarke reportedly requested an early rendition so as to join Lara Bingle and family for dinner.
What the heck does that have to do with 'Wattle Day'...
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Monday, August 31, 2009
Rugby Finals Time
- warming but fickle weather
- if you're not fit now it's too late
- magpie attacks when you are out doing extra km's of training
- Friday salad bar lunch at Sizzler when it existed here and pasta dinner
- my club and team all still in training
- contributing something to about 12 Premierships in 20+ seasons
- my entire family and social schedule is in disarray while we wait to see if we play and if it's Saturday or Sunday on succeeding weekends, then recovery and celebrations!
- In 2009 all Wanderers senior open men's teams and the women's team have made the semi finals [dare I say, as usual]. A building 1st Grade team are Minor Premiers.
I have seen none of this except vicariously through the newspapers 'every week'. I stopped coaching in 2007 to have some more time for other stuff and because it was still painful not playing. I hope to go back next year [and you never know, World Golden Oldies is in Sydney this time next year!]
I took up rugby at the invitation of Gary White [BHP Time Office] at University when I thought I was going to Rugby League training [until lineout practice]. I discovered under those rules my weakness in one on one tackling was not, because as long as you halted your opponents progress the contest for the ball became 'live'. I loved it but after 2 years hurt my knee and had a season off. Lots of my team mates retired and all my mates from other parts of life were playing for the idiots at Wanderers Club [one O swore I'd never play for after a high tackle split lip and various big noting egotistical opponents.... still my mates couldn't be all wrong could they?
23 or so seasons later, 270+ games, 10 direct and 2 assisted Premierships we owned the Fourth Grade comp... if you wanted to win it you had to take it off us and occasionally that happened. I love rugby... belting people, running, passing, tactics, coaching players, time with the lads, endeavour beyond your own capability but possible in teams. As "Wanderer of the Year" in 1994 I was fortunate enough to Captain Coach my team to a premiership after finishing Minor Premiers as Captain/Coach first time up in 1993 but missing the Grand Final due to some nervous finals and poor decisions on my part.
In the summer of 1993/4 I lost some 15kgs and came back smaller and better but also scored a try in the Grand Final with 15 seconds time left and the nervous conversion kick by Brad put us in front for the first time in the whole game [against University] WIN!! We did the same to them again the next year to the strains of the Uni Club song as Les Sherwood scored in almost the same spot and Peter Harvey banged over the goal, game over!!
The toughest encounters were against Maitland [as many knew I grew up there and gave me hell] and our arch rivals Merewether [we hate the slime!!!!] 1st Grade plays them this coming week in the Qualifying Semi [I feel it my duty to attend and vent my spleen at the green fiends]!!
I have previously blogged about being unfit and on prednisone for food allergies in 2003 when I was hit in a three man tackle and ruptured both my kneecap tendons [surgery, 7 weeks in hospital, 3 months off work etc etc]. I had begun to say I intended to play until I couldn't anymore and pretty much lived up to that... but like anything you enjoy that you lose, I still miss it and 23 years of memories are fond but do not equate to sitting some smart mouth opposition player on his backside on the ground, driving a scrum backwards, hitting a ruck, or running the ball into a 80kg inside centre and leaving tyre tracks up his back as you lay the ball back for someone with skills to score the try!!
Anyhow, go the two blues, and I'll enjoy reading about their endeavours and shouting at idiots in green for a few more Saturdays this year!! There are literally hundreds of characters and anecdotes. Chief among them the Ian Maytom line after a 2nd grade loss to Boolaroo at Boolaroo [nobody in the sheds or the crowd could recall the last one... we played very badly]. In the pained silence Ian suggested it was time for him to "go home, run a hot bath, get out the razor blades, and put on a Tracy Chapman record!" I guess you had to be there but it instantly broke the mood as black humour so often does.
My final story is of Ben Ryan [1st grader with loads of ability but a few issues] who travelled with us to Merriwa for a 5th grade game and while running rings around the opposition, struck up a verbal battle with the granite table on legs who held up the Merriwa scrum... jokes about his mum, inbreeding, playing tips, catch me if you can etc etc... Benny also gave away free kick after free kick and the big bloke kept taking the tap and hitting it up into us 10m away.
I had to tell Benny it was funny, but to stop[ because cranky Frank was belting the daylights out of me every time I had to tackle the steam train...] still, the sight of Benny jogging off to the 'sin bin' for 10 mins in white joggers, for inciting a fight, still giving Frank a mouthful was pretty funny... until he ran into me again!!
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Sunday, August 30, 2009
The Mighty Angus Burger from Maccas
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What a Week for East Timor


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Thursday, August 27, 2009
Cadbury looks like going Fairtrade with Dairy Milk Chocolate
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Wednesday, August 26, 2009
Rob's Wallaby XV vs South Africa this Saturday
Here's who I'd play in the side to take on South Africa in Perth this weekend BUT it might be different v NZ next time around as I think one mistake we make is they require different strengths!!
1. Benn Robinson
2. Stephen Moore [only just]
3. Ben Alexander
4. James Horwill
5. Mark Chisolm
6. Rocky Elsom or Dean Mumm
7. Phil Waugh
8. Richard Brown
9. Patrick Phibbs
10. Kurtley Beale
11. Lachlan Turner
12. Matt Giteau
13. Ryan Cross
14. Drew Mitchell
15. Adam Ashley Cooper
Bench
16. Tatafa Polota Nau
17. Matt Dunning
18. David Pocock
19. Will Genia
20. James O Connor
I haven't dropped Al Baxter because of his scrummaging woes because the idiot referees have no idea what they're watching. It's because The other two need to start and Dunning can play both sides of the scrum.
It's time for change and not manufacturing Centres in the absence of Mortlock so I'd bring in Beale for a 'go' but back him for the rest of the series, leave Ashley Cooper at fullback and try Cross who also should be picked for the rest of the series
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Sunday, August 23, 2009
"Jesus: All About Life"
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Burnside Cafe Eavesdrop!!
Last Friday I was doing some work at the ubiquitous Burnside Cafe opp UTC in North Parramatta!! A cosy little cafe where you're guaranteed to bump into a colleague, a student, a friend and/or one of the extended familiyt members of the hard working tribe who run the establishment.
I was doing admin work in between catch ups and 'could not' seriously 'could not' help overhearing at least the tenor of the conversation amongst a group of six thirtysomething women in the centre of the indoor cafe area.
They were a cross cultural group of differing social background where there was clearly acquantence across the group with some closer friends than others. At one piont they could havebeen indicating they were a Fete taskgroup or canteen mums from a local school or the like.
I was struck by their conversation about former alternative partners and how they came to be in their current relationships, with the ocassional intimate detail or double meaning joke and lots of laughter. There was clear reference to one of the women's recent or at least still acrimonious break up. Keep in mind I was just reading my notes, making a few additions and quite focused on my stuff but you could sense the pain in the sharing.
At one an anecdote about one of the women led to a story of a former hobby of tarot and palm reading, followed by an encouraged reading of each persons palm. She knew some of these woman well and I was tempted to interupt and suggest a neutral example...
As is often the case in my experience, quite randomly the woman with the most recent relationship turmoil was last to be 'read' and tension was in the air as it was the most strained and cautious commentary of the group.
I write about it here because I was fascinated by the topics, vibe and the dynamics of this morning tea. I wondered what I would say given the opportunity of a throwaway line of a sideways look from one of the group just checking their volume in the space.
The group broke up leaving the now slightly strained looking woman and her closest friend from the group who shared about the specifics of the recent hassles. I tuned out but was so aware of just 'pain'... pain shared, pain not yet understood and one person attempting to steel themselves 'not to be walked over' in relation to some joint decisionmaking.
Keeping in mind I was not actually part of the conversation I will continue to reflect on 'what I was really hearing' for some time... sacred moments of group sharing, caring and journeying together!! Some of the women went home with stuff to ponder from their 'reading' and one went home after a long embrace from her friend. I have known something of that lonely need and the places you go when stuff gets hard. Interesting morning!!
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